Love At First Sight? How About Love Without Sight?

*The following is my own article, written at http://www.paragonproject.com/forums*

Man's modern view of attraction is that it probably comes from being good looking, rich, successful, etc.

Probably very low on the list of attraction-creating skills is maintaining positive conversation.

Proven through the following example, that thinking is absolutely WRONG!

My friend Allison was at her cousin's beach house and over AOL Instant Messenger, I chatted with her. Allison's cousin had never seen a picture of me, met me, or ever even heard of me previously. One thing led to another and somehow I ended up chatting with Allison's cousin after Allison had returned home.

Our chats started out basic: school, work, hobbies, interests, etc. Through the advantage of distance, we felt comfortable talking about more personal topics as our chats progressed.

All throughout these chats I would tease her, hype myself up, and subtly display that I was a guy girls fall in love with.

Before long a sexual tension was created and it wasn't much longer when she told me something like this:

"This may sound creepy and weird and I've never even met you, but I have feelings for you. I just can't explain it, but there is something about you that just draws me to you."

MAGIC!

I could be the ugliest, poorest man alive, yet she was confessing her attraction to me simply because of the interest and the attraction I created through online conversation!